My e-mails, my remarks, my conversation, my phone messages--he said they were irrelevant to the case.
This is what I am talking about...the 300 hundred dollars spent trying to obtain the court order was definitely not irrelevant to me.
The entire day, the money, the emotional stress--these are important to me and I am trying to create the narrative.
They do not want to hear it.
The things you said were really irrelevant to the case.
I do not think they care and I do not call this dignity for my mother.
Again, he did not want to admit she already owned her plot at Greenwood in San Diego.
I do not think that is irrelevant because I am trying to establish a time line and the false narrative created by my cousin.
You see, one time he said he had to consider my cousin's words. I am asking him to consider my words.
I do not think they care about my mother. They only care about CYA or absolving themselves from any repsponsibility.
They are only interested in the court order.
So I went to get the court order locally based on the information given to me by the cemetery director.
He said in our phone call he was sure it would be very easy to get, I could just go locally, yes, I said that to the judge.
The judge said...a lot of people say a lot of things but I do not have jurisdiction!
Yes, it was embarrassing.
My statements are irrelevant! Not to me!
I think they should be helping me in some way since they created it.
I feel like it is cruel.
I have to write it--one cannot hold it inside.
In one breath he said he simply could not help with an affadavit because he has so many disinternments he would be doing nothing else except handing out affadavits all day.
In the same conversation he said he knew nothing about the order for a disinterment because he really did not have that many and he was not a lawyer.
I bet he does know that the order has to originate in AZ.
If he does or does not have many or not many disinternments.
So many folks in the VA system say sompletely different things. One fellow said to call the police.
Seriously, do I have to mention the police were not interested.
So I think...it would be nice if they cared rather than say my remarks were irrelevant to the case.
Yes, I get the court order thing, I am working on it but it is extremely difficult, but I think my story is well, interesting, and I would like to tell everyone.
It is important to me, my mother and the 300 dollars.
That is not irrelevant to me.
The picture the VA paints of themselves is really so absurd and ugly.
They are a giant government entity--I am just one person with my mother's ashes in the offing. They should at least act like they have some empathy for all of the distress they are causing by their actions.
Some other posts on this subject:
https://theronnierepublic.blogspot.com/2023/03/buried-by-national-cemetery.html
https://theronnierepublic.blogspot.com/2023/03/national-cemetery-administration.html
https://theronnierepublic.blogspot.com/2023/03/va-burials-flaws-in-system-where-is.html
