Claiming he was unable to contact me, Scott Varley, my cousin, placed my mother's ashes at The National Cemetery in Prescott, Arizona without my knowledge.
Under the impression he was being helpful, he had offered to pick up the ashes at Neptune in San Diego--we all lived there forever.
He claimed to the Veterans Affairs he had not heard from me in years and did not have any idea about where I was living or my phone number.
How did he get the ashes?
He called me up when he was visiting San Diego and I foolishly said 'Yes,' as it saved me a trip.
So he called me right up when he wanted to pick up the ashes but when he wanted to bury my mother he did not know my number.
I had to give my okay for him to take the ashes as I am the NOK on the death certificate.
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| Merry Christmas from Scott Varley and exchanging photos--December and Jauary of 2020 |
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| My mother asking about Scott's shoulder--He liked to visit my mother. |
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| Scott wanted to give me his take on the world situation yet he could not tell me about my mother's service to place her ashes in Prescott, Arizona. |
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| A conversation with Scott about a month after mother passed away. I did enjoy my relationship with my cousin. Why did Scott Varley conduct his actions with the VA in secret. Did he want me to know about the events that were taking place with my mother's ashes? |
