Posting with Jean Buchmann again

 For some reason this spider reminds me of you. The spider seems angry but maybe he is not. Are you angry. Let's try and work things out or is it your and scott's goal to hijack my mother's ashes forever. I do not understand what you are doing and I do not understand why you would want to create a hardship for another person. What I really do not understand is why scott simply did not give my name or phone number to the cemetery. Did he want revenge simply because I wanted to wait to bury my mother and he did not want to wait. If he di not want to give them my number he could have said she was in the VA home in Chula Vista for 4 years and they would have had my number. Does he want me to feel bad. Does he not want to know what it says in the will and trust. What is wrong with trying to work this out. Did he tell the cemetery that my mother had her grave at Greenwood. What is wrong with trying to work things out..do you feel like you would be going against scott if we chatted. Perhaps, we all could chat. You may find this hard to believe, but I actually enjoyed scott's friendship...he is my cousin. I thought scott was my friend and I was glad about that. I am okay that we think differently about politics. Is that what bothered you, that scott and I were friends. Maybe, we could be friends again, too. Why not, let's give it a go. What are you actually mad about. Why are you so against me. I am thinking now, looking back, that your dad was resentful that I stayed at Grandma's so often. I had not control over that. Perhaps, we can talk about it rather than be angry. Sherry