Flaws In The System At The National Cemetery Administration

There seems to be a huge issue in getting the will and trust naming me as the NOK and the agent in charge of her remains in the file.  They are working very hard to not put it into the file.

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The National Cemetery Administration and Les' Melnyck: I am the daughter...

 Trying to get the National Cemetery Administration to recognize me as my mother's daughter. 

As long as I do not exist they have done everything perfectly. 

When they buried her without letting me know it was a terrible, painful and humiliating situation....and definitely not compassionate towards the family member. 

Compassionate and courteous treatment to the family members are one of their hallmarks, they claim, but they were never compassionate towards me. Infact, they tried to discredit me once I started asking them questions. 

Once I realized they had lied to me they basically quit speaking. Les' Melnyck, Public Outreach Officer, stated we cannot just let any random person know what we are doing. 

But, Les', I am not a random person, I am the daughter. and named as the NOK in the will and trust. 

Les' Melnyck stated in an e-mail that I had ignored my mother during COVID--not ture. They have stated lies about me but when I try to tell them the truth they will not talk. 

How do I get the truth in the file. 

They love their false narrative. 

Is it proper for the NCA officials to try and assassinate the character of the family member--is that the philosophy of the NCA?

Did they not think I would be sad to find out my mother had been buried, had all of the military honors, and no one could be bothered to invite me to the service.

My mother never would have wanted me to be excluded--I am her only child--I took care of her--I arranged her placement in the VA home in Chula Vista.

They want to go on about how grand they are but in this instance their actions were very hurtful--is that the way they treat the family of the Veterans?

National Cemetery Administration #NCA, #NationalCemeteryAdministration...

It took me forever to figure out The National Cemetery Administration did not really want to acknowledge that I was the daughter of my mother.

As long as I do not exist they have done everything perfectly.

Finding My Mother's Ashes July 15, 2023

Here is a podcast about my mother's ashes.

It details the hijacking of her remains by my cousin and the VA and the NCA--The National Cemetery Administration.

I do have so many questions about what happened and this is just the beginning.

To be continued.

Thank you for reading and listening.

There are many posts on this blog about this subject.

#VeteransAdministration  #NationalCemeteryAdministration  #VA  #NCA  #FindingMyMother'sAshes

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My Mother Joined The WAVES in 1943...

 My mother joined the WAVES in 1943. 

She was very proud of her assignment in Hawaii. 

Unfortunately, for mother, the VA has hijacked her ashes and placed her in AZ at The National Cemetery in Prescott. 

She wanted to be by her parents in San Diego at Greenwood where she already owned her plot. 

One of the NCA policies is to always be courteous. 

It would be nice if they answered my questions. 

They buried her on false statements given by my cousin. 

They do not want to admit they acted on false statements. 

The question is why? 

Most adults want to get to the truth of a situation but not the VA or NCA. 

Here is my story https://theronnierepublic.blogspot.com/.../national... 

Thank you for reading. Tell me if you have any tips for solving this thing. 

New Under Secretary for Memorial Affairs Matthew Quinn

My mother joined the WAVES in 1943. She was very proud of her assignment in Hawaii. Unfortunately, for mother, the VA has hijacked her ashes and placed her in AZ at The National Cemetery in Prescott. She wanted to be by her parents in San Diego at Greenwood where she already owned her plot. One of the NCA policies is to always be courteous. It would be nice if they answered my questions. They buried her on false statements given by my cousin. They do not want to admit they acted on false statements. The question is why? Most adults want to get to the truth of a situation but not the VA or NCA. Here is my story https://theronnierepublic.blogspot.com/.../national... Thank you for reading. Tell me if you have any tips for solving this thing. No lawyer is interested.